Unapologetic Rabble-Rousers: An Exploration of Leadership

72: "I'm Sorry But..." Isn't an Apology - It's a Disguise

Heads up — we’re calling BS on the apology reflex.
In this no-holds-barred conversation, Carla and Shellie peel back the layers behind “I’m sorry” — that automatic mask we slap on before sharing an opinion, asking a question, or daring to take up space. If you've ever said "I'm sorry, but..." before saying what you really meant, this one’s for you. Come for the candor, stay for the clarity, and leave with a little less sorry in your spirit.

71: Stop Waiting. Start Doing. Confidence Comes Later.

🚨REAL TALK: You do NOT need confidence to take the mic, pitch the idea, or put your message into the world.
In fact, confidence comes AFTER you do the scary thing, not before.
🎤💥 In this laugh-out-loud, gut-punching episode of Unapologetic Rabble-Rousers, Carla Lewis and DocShellie drop truth bombs on embarrassment, perfectionism, and the lie that says “you’re not ready.”
You’ll leave fired up, full of “imperfect courage,” and ready to show up—sweaty palms and all.
🎧 Hit play. Then go do the thing.

70: The Tolerance Trap: Why You're More Exhausted than You Think

🚫 "It’s fine” is killing your vibe.
You're not burnt out—you’re exhausted from pretending that everything you’re tolerating is “no big deal.” In this spicy, soul-stirring episode, Carla and DocShellie expose the quiet killer of joy: unspoken resentment. Expect truth, laughter, and the ultimate question: What are you tolerating that’s slowly stealing your power?

69: Unlearning: Letting go to Move Forward, Unapologetically

🚨 What if the biggest thing holding you back isn’t what you don’t know—but what you think you do? We’re talking about unlearning today—the sneaky, subconscious programming that keeps you playing small. From the beliefs we inherited as kids to the silent “rules” we live by without question, Carla and DocShellie are ripping it all apart to show you how to challenge old narratives, rewrite your truth, and step into the life you actually want. Because you weren’t born to be stuck. 🎧

68: Ditch Being Nice: Embrace True Kindness

🚨 PSA: Being nice is NOT the same as being kind—and if you’ve been trained to be nice at all costs, it’s probably costing you more than you realize. Niceness is about avoiding conflict, keeping people comfortable, and sacrificing your own truth. Kindness, on the other hand? That’s about honesty, respect, and standing in integrity—even when it’s awkward. Carla and DocShellie pull no punches in this episode, calling out the niceness trap, the resentment it breeds, and how shifting to real kindness can change your relationships (and your life). 🔥

67: Silent Resignation: Are You Checked Out Of Your Own Life?

🚨 Are you living or just existing? 🚨
Ever felt like you’re just going through the motions—wake up, work, sleep, repeat? That’s silent resignation, and it’s sneaky as hell. In this episode of Unapologetic Rabble Rousers, Carla and DocShellie break down why it happens, how to recognize it (before you wake up wondering what the hell happened to my life), and simple, doable steps to get re-engaged. Spoiler: You don’t have to quit your job and move to Bali—unless you want to (in which case, take us with you).

66: Self-Sabotage: When Your Worst Enemy is YOU

🚨 Self-sabotage isn’t just a bad habit—it’s a full-blown defense mechanism dressed up as "logic." 🚨

We tell ourselves, “I’ll fail anyway, so why try?” or “If I succeed, they’ll expect more.” Sound familiar? Carla and DocShellie are here to expose self-sabotage for what it really is: a sneaky thief stealing your happiness, career growth, and even your workout routine. From emotional eating to career-killing procrastination, they break down why we do it—and how to stop it before it derails our progress. Tune in and get ready to call yourself out (with love, of course).

 

65: Fear of Being Seen: Unmasking Your Authentic Self

🚨 What if your biggest fear isn’t failure…but being seen? 🚨
Carla and DocShellie are exposing the hidden fear that keeps so many people playing small—the fear of showing up fully, unapologetically, and authentically. From childhood messages like "Don’t show off" to the gut-clenching doubt of "Am I enough?", they unpack why visibility can feel like a risk and how to break free from the self-imposed barriers holding you back. If you’ve ever hesitated to share your voice, this episode is your call to step out of the shadows and into your power.